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May 18, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

Sincerely, you made wonderful 👍 points and the fact remains many persons need to be reoriented of the notion that money is important but not the fundamental.

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May 19, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

Guilty as charged, but before you can commit to any relationship you need to be self sufficient and that you can do with stable income (money).

Always love you articles 👍

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May 18, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

Biodun!!!!!!!!!! Amazing piece boss

For me, like 17million is the goal

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May 19, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

This is very very true. Thank you for sharing, Biodun. Money is good but if we aren't careful, we'd lose out on beautiful, meaningful and value-adding relationships. Another thing that comes to mind is that we can die before we hit the financial mark we want. And if we hold back on giving and receiving love before then, we'd have lost out on both ends.

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May 19, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

True, one's bank balance shouldn't be the most IMPORTANT yardstick for determining whether or not to go into a relationship as money can never be ENOUGH. But I also think that it's a valid point if people want to be comfortable and have a certain amount of stability and confidence that comes from financial Independence/abundance, before entering into a relationship.

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May 19, 2022·edited May 19, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

Nice points sir, this is a mindset changer for this generation of ours. I hope it can go far for people to read.

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May 18, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

I must say your points are really valid. Amongst other things said, I love this quote "The right person is never a distraction but a boost towards your dream destination". I enjoyed reading this, thank you for the write-up and well done.

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May 18, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

I love how made the points stating money is not the centre of attraction. Keep up the great work Biodun👍👍👍

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Wow, this piece is amazing

this is so appropriate to many peoples situation, coming at the right time.

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May 18, 2022Liked by Abiodun Aguda Jr.

There's no lie to what you have said. Such and amazing piece

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Lol...will revisit this

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I'm not in a relationship.

And its not because of money, it's because I don't want a broken heart and I don't wanna break any hearts.

I'm afraid of a relationship, deep within I yearn for a connection with someone but superficially I toughen up and don't want to lose guard.

Love is for the weak 😏

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