Words of affirmation or gifts, everyone has a preference on the topic. The idea is easily adopted, your love language is that expression of care that probably sweeps you off your feet or gets you blushing hard at every thought of the giver.
So what’s your love language? I’m a lot more concerned about the language you speak rather than what you’d like to listen to.
Hear me out… When the question pops up about love languages, people are quick to mention what they love receiving as signals of care from a partner or a friend. My case is centered on how you speak your love language to others, get the gist?
Let’s analyze a young handsome guy that lives in Lagos. We'll name him Biodun, and this is purely random naming so don’t attack me on this one. Biodun has a couple of interesting love languages, physical touch, food and reciprocated care + attention. He is swept off reality when a person exhibits all these traits towards him, here’s the twist, what exactly makes Biodun unique?
His ability to speak these love languages and more. So if his friend’s love language are words of affirmation, is he willing to speak it? Or is he guilty of receiving without giving a thought to giving?
Remember, there’s more love in giving than in ….
I’ll refrain from jumping into conclusions, but against popular notion; your language is what you speak and listen to. So your list should include anything giving gifts from sending funny reels on Instagram, I love this language😂
Point is, get in the groove of speaking more than wanting to listen. Show that love gesture to a friend today, and this article wasn’t referring to people in romantic relationships but special bonds of friendship you formed along the way.
Yours Lovingly,
Biodun🥰
Nice article
Most people forget that to speak a language someone must understand it
It goes both ways.
Someone said that your love language is normally things you won’t like someone else doing for or to you. For example I haaatee it when humans touch me. Sometimes even hugging is stretching it if I don’t like you but with someone I love bruh I want to enter your skin. Giving gifts for example if my friends give me gift I love it don’t get me wrong but if a random guy I’m talking to on ig or something just send me a gift it’s a bit Wierd especially if it’s something I don’t like like chocolate with nuts. But if my person should give me sand I’ll be head over heels.
What do you think of this theory it’s not exactly 100 % accurate lol but I wanna know what you think