The typical guy when asked about his dream lady has a particular figure in his head, if only you’d give him clay… he’ll mold absolute perfection as a bride. And this obviously differs in every unique person. For some perfection is Omotola Jalade’s looks in KIM k’s body with Mrs Adeboye’s personality and a sprinkle of Cardi B. Weird right? i thought so too.
Which advances us to the point of this article, What boys want (W.B.W) vs What men desire (W.M.D) … now you understand the code. Hold up, Chill!!! the earlier description i gave of the perfect lady isn’t mine, just popular survey. Lol….
Anyways men aren’t always indecisive as many people think, the problem is that their taste and desire in women change as maturity begins to set in. Then they realize they never actually needed divas for wives, they simply prefer entrepreneurs, You get the gist. Preference helps to distinguish needs from wants, economics was no scam.
So how do we distinguish, here’s the clue….. follow this chart and understand the difference
Boys want…. Slay mamas, Hot chicks
Men desire … respectable, loving wives
Boys want girls who say yes at first call and are down for whatever they ask.
Men desire ladies that think and know what they want
Boys want sex on the first date
Men desire straight up ladies, not easy cajoled
Boys crave lazy girls who are always available
Men need industrious ladies with goals
This obviously doesn’t come as a surprise to you, but understanding how a man thinks helps a lady determine if that Tunde you like is mature or still at growing stage. No guy with a positive mindset is intimidated by an industrious woman, rather he is bolstered to step up to challenge….. that’s the mindset of the real man.
If you are a girl (lack independence, are ruled by insecurity, lack self-respect, throw tantrums, have princess syndrome, don’t have strong values or boundaries and can’t hold yourself on your own) then expect that you will attract only boys. However, if you are a woman (independent, ambitious, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a man. 1
Amy Chan https://hearthackersclub.com/11-differences-between-dating-a-boy-vs-a-man/
Hmm....I really cannot agree less and yes I finally get to know the meaning of the codes😁😁😜
Apt!