It started with zodiac signs as an excuse for bad behaviour, then we simply lost it with the dire need for validation. Craziness to build an online audience meant we would do anything to be recognized.
We’ve simply lost all sense of morality and are slipping down the slope. If you thought that our economic situation was the only situation, think again
I read this on Twitter:
“This generation turned
Gluttony to Foodie, Promiscuity to sexual liberation, Nudity into body positivity, bleaching into skincare, prostitution into escort services, drug abuse into just having fun”
Here’s my very own favourite, we turned lack of decency into “ a queen and more”. it is a great excuse for bad behaviour and we have lost it, unfortunately, but the aim of this article is not to change the flaws, Nah, it is something bigger.
What happened to relationships?
It is crazy when we think about the fact that the term “ friend-zone” has become normal. interestingly, many of us have lost the best relationships because he/she is a friend and nothing more.
So work with me here, this individual is a shoulder to cry on, a friend in distress, knows all your issues and has dealt with them consistently, obviously looks out for your best interests probably against theirs. Yet when it comes to a relationship that you are ready for and simply want to enjoy with that loving person, your friend does not just fit into criteria.
I understand that you like a banging body or a great looking person, but sometimes our personal values have been defined by social media and cruise on your WhatsApp status. so you think you know what you want, but your mind is negatively impacted by the popular ideas online. no wonder a person would justify their bad habits with a zodiac sign.
Okay before you flood the comment section, sometimes you need to think about what you really want versus what the world is telling you. The concept of friends with benefits is simply a runaway plan from commitments, which is not so hard if you’re with the right person.
Okay, I’m exhausted… but for one minute, think about that great person you would always want to talk to any time, any day, your friend, not ours. If a relationship could set sail, what could go wrong? A breakup? Nah, not a fair answer for me, everything relationship has its ups and downs. Don’t lose that great person because you are searching for what is not missing. Do you dig?
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I have a different view. Things aren't black and white and relationships are not exempt. What is wrong in not wanting commitment at a particular point in time? We need to understand that what works for A won't work for B. Also, relationships are evolving and it won't remain the traditional way. As long as you and your partner set the rules and be transparent, who should care in the actual instance?
Our decisions this days is just packed in an echo chamber, even unconsciously doing things we dont expect to do but constant seeing everyday is crazy mehn, Our subconscious is like the largest storage ever, picking up things we dont even know we are.. i watched this video recently
https://youtu.be/FZvee3-PEzo