So I learnt this from Toolz at YECO4 and it hit deep, she said “nobody owes you anything”…. but how exactly, Bimbo still owes me Hollandia ( my unending love for yoghurts)… Okay focus, what did she mean?
The average individual grows up with a flawed sense of entitlement.
The government should provide jobs
My parents must educate me
My boyfriend must provide for me
And so much more
The human mind is conditioned to claim certain things that we classify as "Rights" and affects us in relationships like demanding for what is probably not available.
Well, my dear reader, the moment you discover that we all need to work for what we get, we accept privileges as gifts and then pay attention to the fact that not everyone had the opportunities you accessed at your fingertips.
Yet, in the end, we are all weighed on the same scale, opportunities or not. Do you follow?
Let’s expand it this way - when results are out, does anyone care about whether your teachers came to class or not, nope. The only important question is, what did you score? Yes, you, get the point? The scale has weighed regardless.
Therefore learn to appreciate what you have, but do not for one moment act like you’re entitled to anything just because it's described as your “needs”.
Editor/Creator: Abiodun Aguda Jr
Its the Bimbo still owes me hollandia for me😂😂😂
I used to think I was the only that feels this way, lol, my friends thinks i actually made myself feel that way just to think my life was perfect irrespective of the downs🥺